Welp, baby boy is full term now! I keep saying that he is just freeloading now. I will give him until Thursday, then he gets his eviction warning. One more week and it's an eviction NOTICE. His current location will be closing for renovations and he's gonna have to get OUT!
I've been behind blogging so I'll start with my 36 week appointment. This one didn't' go as smoothly as some of the others. First, they took my BP and it was high, which they know happens. Then my doctor came in and said that I needed to get one more blood draw for some random reason. Now I was sure I'd already had all the blood draws I needed, so this instantly put me on edge. It's like I needed some time to get used to the idea of having my arm pricked! So by the time the appointment was over, I was on edge. They were sending me to the lap (which is at my clinic) and they weren't quite ready so I headed to the waiting room. While I was there, my nurse came out and said "Oh, let me take your blood pressure again to make sure it went down!" Well that's crazy to take it right before a blood draw! It was way way way up, still.
At the lab, the phlebotomist asked why I was there and I said that my doctor told me I needed another blood draw for a test (it was for HIV/Hep B, which I'd already been cleared on and had opted out of a second test!) The lady said that insurance would pay for another one if I wanted it, and I said, honestly I don't care either way, but can we just get on with it? So they went ahead and did it. It wasn't as bad as I anticipated. But then the nurse wanted to take my bp AGAIN and it was still high!
And here's the thing about blood pressure -- there are only a few things that can naturally bring it down and one of those is not being stressed, but when youre' stressed about bringing it down,it's going to stay up. See? So that was the story of my life for about 24 hours after that appointment. They said if it stayed high that I should go to Labor & Delivery to have it monitored. Well, I'm thinking to myself, no WAY I'm going to L&D and letting them take my baby out of me at 36 weeks..I wasn't ready! All this happened Tuesday, but by that evening it was still high but only marginally so. In the morning it was back up. I took it a time or two more and by the afternoon decided to just go to L&D. They checked me in and put me in a triage room. I just kept my regular clothes on and they hooked me up to a BP monitor, contraction monitor and fetal heartbeat monitor. It was so nice hearing his little strong heart. I didn't have any contractions and over the course of 2 hours or so, my bp ended up going down so low that Kelsey wasn't sure if I was still alive ;) They let me go home and said everything else looked normal, so I didn't need to worry if it was up slightly next time unless I had headaches or vomiting.
Then to the 37 week appointment. This was last Tuesday and I was determined to have Kelsey there so I could avoid another situation. Well it worked because my BP was down lower than it had been the whole pregnancy at an appointment! Everything was fine and normal. She kept saying, "could be any day!" but didn't have any insight into when it would be. They have no idea! She said he felt like he had dropped more. His heart beat was great and he was moving around slightly, as usual. Love that little guy!
So tomorrow will be 38 weeks and my last appointment (keeping in mind that my X week appointment falls two days before I am the next week pregnant, so this means I'll be 39 weeks on Thursday). She will be doing an exam this time to see if I have dialated further (I had dialated to 1). I think Kelsey is going with me again, so hoping I will stay calm!
Now, on to how I'm feeling. Within the past few days I've started feeling really uncomfortable all the time. I feel like I'm blessed with this because a lot of women get this way FAR earlier in their pregnancies. The worst is when I'm sleeping. It's so hard to turn over anymore. I have to lug my big belly right with me! And no matter what side I'm on, I hurt. My hips hurt and my hands are swollen. They are also very, very stiff. I can barely bend them, especially after I first wake up. Because he's dropped some, he's laying more on my hips/pelvis so I feel him just pinching all the time when I'm up and moving. It does feel good to get up and take walks, etc. but then I'm ready to sit back down again. I'm using my balance ball because sometimes it's more comfortable than the couch...never thought I'd say that! But the end is in sight!
Countdown!
Monday, November 15, 2010
Thursday, October 28, 2010
35 week appointment
Yesterday was my 35 week appointment and it was a good one. Kelsey was able to go with me, and that always improves my blood pressure, even though the day started out stressful with a call from work. I really thought going into it that my blood pressure would be SKY high. I even told the nurse that it might be high and to keep that in mind, but it was only 126/71, which is great for me! That just proves that having Kelsey there makes things better..he calms me down!
So then they did the exam. They had to do a swab for Group B which I still have no idea what it is, but it's not harmful at all for Mommys but is very harmful to babies, so if I have it, I just have to take antibiotics. The things I've learned....then she did an internal exam to see where he was sitting and if he had dropped. The first thing she said was, "He's facing the right direction!!" And then she said he had a nice, hard head. I said he gets that from his Daddy, and Kelsey said he gets it from BOTH of us, which is so totally true. Then she said he had dropped a little bit, but not completely. WE're getting closer!
I have to say, I really love my midwife. I was reading an article the other day that said of women who saw a doctor for their prenatal care, 65% said they were satisfied with it, whereas women who saw a midwife/nurse practitioner reported a 85% satisfaction rate. I think it's because midwives have more time to sit down with their patients and answer questions, and they answer them in a more relaxed way than doctors do. I know I've had problems with doctors before who seem too busy or "uppity" to care about my concerns. Sharon, our midwife, sat down and just talked to us about our concerns, and always tells me how well I'm doing. Of course I love that. :)
With all that being said, I'm really excited about his arrival. It's funny, I'm a little bit torn between loving my baby belly so much that I'll miss it, and him being here. Now , this doesn't mean that I'll be wanting to pop out another little one as soon as he's out, but there is something really cool and comforting about him being in my belly moving around...it feels like I can control that situation. But I'm also really looking forward to holding him and hugging him and seeing Kelsey do the same (and of course, Aunt Sis, Grammie, Grumpa, and the rest of the crew). Everytime I see one of his little onesies or diapers I just wish he was here now. It's a good place to be in. I wouldn't want extremes either way (like, devastated that I wont' be pregnant anymore or begging for him to get here soon). Knowing that he could really come anytime in the next 4 weeks is so exciting!
Mom and Dad are leaving today to drive down for the weekend, my shower at work is today and we're doing maternity pictures this weekend! So it should be an exciting week!
Here is my 36 week picture:
So then they did the exam. They had to do a swab for Group B which I still have no idea what it is, but it's not harmful at all for Mommys but is very harmful to babies, so if I have it, I just have to take antibiotics. The things I've learned....then she did an internal exam to see where he was sitting and if he had dropped. The first thing she said was, "He's facing the right direction!!" And then she said he had a nice, hard head. I said he gets that from his Daddy, and Kelsey said he gets it from BOTH of us, which is so totally true. Then she said he had dropped a little bit, but not completely. WE're getting closer!
I have to say, I really love my midwife. I was reading an article the other day that said of women who saw a doctor for their prenatal care, 65% said they were satisfied with it, whereas women who saw a midwife/nurse practitioner reported a 85% satisfaction rate. I think it's because midwives have more time to sit down with their patients and answer questions, and they answer them in a more relaxed way than doctors do. I know I've had problems with doctors before who seem too busy or "uppity" to care about my concerns. Sharon, our midwife, sat down and just talked to us about our concerns, and always tells me how well I'm doing. Of course I love that. :)
With all that being said, I'm really excited about his arrival. It's funny, I'm a little bit torn between loving my baby belly so much that I'll miss it, and him being here. Now , this doesn't mean that I'll be wanting to pop out another little one as soon as he's out, but there is something really cool and comforting about him being in my belly moving around...it feels like I can control that situation. But I'm also really looking forward to holding him and hugging him and seeing Kelsey do the same (and of course, Aunt Sis, Grammie, Grumpa, and the rest of the crew). Everytime I see one of his little onesies or diapers I just wish he was here now. It's a good place to be in. I wouldn't want extremes either way (like, devastated that I wont' be pregnant anymore or begging for him to get here soon). Knowing that he could really come anytime in the next 4 weeks is so exciting!
Mom and Dad are leaving today to drive down for the weekend, my shower at work is today and we're doing maternity pictures this weekend! So it should be an exciting week!
Here is my 36 week picture:
Friday, October 22, 2010
Baby shower at Cornestone!
Yesterday we had a baby shower at Kelsey's school. Instead of doing individual gifts, the school had families/kids donate and they bought our gifts with that money. Two women were "in charge" of it and they did the most phenomenal job. It was really amazing how much love they poured into us. I just am blown away about how much people love this little guy, and he's not even here yet!
The theme was "monkeying around", just like the theme of our nursery, and it was in nursery colors, too. Most of the kids at the school wore baby blue in honor of the shower and our baby! We walked onto the patio and they were serving banana splits. The tables were decorated with bananas and balloons, and there was a diaper cake on the side. For those of you who don't know, here is it:
Basically, it's diapers made into a shape of a three tiered cake. This one was made from a whole case of diapers and had little odds and ends stuck into it, like baby nail clippers, swabs, lotions and that kind of thing. The monkey was like a little cake topper!
There were a few individual gifts, like some clothes, a little picture frame, lotions, little storage containers, and a few other things. Then we got into the rest of the gifts from the offering. Our nursery has little blue, green and brown storage boxes, so some of the gifts were placed in those. We got all sorts of clothes, hats, booties, sleepers (which we needed), mittens, gowns, bath stuff and other goodies. We got our diaper bag, which was a "5-piece set" including a smaller diaper bag, a changing pad cover, a "dirty duds" bag and an insulated bottle holder.
Another set of gifts were in a monkey hamper...SO glad we got that one! This package had a lot of nursing things, like the breast pump I registered for, some bags, then lots of sheets, flannel pads for the bed, and pack and play sheets.
The "big gift" from the staff was a second car seat for the other car! We were super excited about this one, as it was really the only other "big ticket" item that we really needed to get. It's a booster carseat so he can use it when he's bigger!
I was just overwhelmed by the love that the school showed to us, for a little baby boy who isn't even born yet!! I just feel so blessed that he's being taken care of.
The theme was "monkeying around", just like the theme of our nursery, and it was in nursery colors, too. Most of the kids at the school wore baby blue in honor of the shower and our baby! We walked onto the patio and they were serving banana splits. The tables were decorated with bananas and balloons, and there was a diaper cake on the side. For those of you who don't know, here is it:
Basically, it's diapers made into a shape of a three tiered cake. This one was made from a whole case of diapers and had little odds and ends stuck into it, like baby nail clippers, swabs, lotions and that kind of thing. The monkey was like a little cake topper!
There were a few individual gifts, like some clothes, a little picture frame, lotions, little storage containers, and a few other things. Then we got into the rest of the gifts from the offering. Our nursery has little blue, green and brown storage boxes, so some of the gifts were placed in those. We got all sorts of clothes, hats, booties, sleepers (which we needed), mittens, gowns, bath stuff and other goodies. We got our diaper bag, which was a "5-piece set" including a smaller diaper bag, a changing pad cover, a "dirty duds" bag and an insulated bottle holder.
Another set of gifts were in a monkey hamper...SO glad we got that one! This package had a lot of nursing things, like the breast pump I registered for, some bags, then lots of sheets, flannel pads for the bed, and pack and play sheets.
The "big gift" from the staff was a second car seat for the other car! We were super excited about this one, as it was really the only other "big ticket" item that we really needed to get. It's a booster carseat so he can use it when he's bigger!
I was just overwhelmed by the love that the school showed to us, for a little baby boy who isn't even born yet!! I just feel so blessed that he's being taken care of.
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
34 week appointment & breastfeeding class
I had another normal appointment yesterday! My blood pressure was up at the beginning and low at the end (as usual). My midwife measured my belly and said it was the perfect size, so that means he's the right size for his age. She said he must be "stretching out" because she could feel him on both sides of my belly. Next appointment they will do an exam to see how my cervix is doing and at that point she'll determine how big he is (well, it's just an educated guess) and if he's head down. My next appointment is in 2 weeks and starts my weekly appointments...THAT'S close! I will only have 4 more of them left, unless he comes early. His heart rate was great and she didn't have any trouble finding it this week. He was being calm and patient for once!
She gave me a little card and I'm supposed to "count my kicks". This seems like a lot of hassle for me, considering he moves all the time. I have to start counting and when I get to 10 kicks, I stop. If I don't feel 10 kicks in 2 hours, I'm supposed to call their office immediately. In our childbirth ed class we had to do the same thing, but she said to lay on our sides and if he doesn't' move, drink some juice and see if he moves. The biggest problem with this kick counting stuff is the fact that the instructions tell me to lay on my side..now how am I supposed to do that at work? So I'm just sitting with my feet propped up doing it at my desk!
We had a breast feeding class last night and it was really informative. I am very committed to sticking it out because I feel like it's best for him AND (selfishly) it will save money on formula. I'm thinking, why spend all that money on artificial stuff when I could use what God gave me (well, let's hope he gives me enough) and use that money to buy fun stuff for Luke! The coolest thing about the class was them talking about getting skin to skin contact with the baby from the minute he's born, up to an hour, right on my chest! The teacher said a lot of Moms will just fall asleep like that for a little while, with that warm little baby right there being cuddled. I told Kelsey nothing sounds nicer to me. He said later, "I have to admit...that is pretty special. Moms are lucky they get to do that." Then later in the class, he asked the instructor if Dads could give skin to skin contact too! She said it was a great idea and to hold him as much as possible at first. I can just imagine us all laying in bed napping and cuddling. Can't wait!
The other day we were at Mochi, which is this really yummy yogurt place where you get your own toppings, and I saw a Mom with her baby eating yogurt and just seeing her made me want to cry. I just can't wait to see his little face, and although 6 weeks doesn't seem like a lot, it feels like an eternity!!
We had our childbirth ed class (the first 2 sessions) so I'm going to wait till it's all done to write about that.
Here is my picture from last Wednesday (33 weeks).
She gave me a little card and I'm supposed to "count my kicks". This seems like a lot of hassle for me, considering he moves all the time. I have to start counting and when I get to 10 kicks, I stop. If I don't feel 10 kicks in 2 hours, I'm supposed to call their office immediately. In our childbirth ed class we had to do the same thing, but she said to lay on our sides and if he doesn't' move, drink some juice and see if he moves. The biggest problem with this kick counting stuff is the fact that the instructions tell me to lay on my side..now how am I supposed to do that at work? So I'm just sitting with my feet propped up doing it at my desk!
We had a breast feeding class last night and it was really informative. I am very committed to sticking it out because I feel like it's best for him AND (selfishly) it will save money on formula. I'm thinking, why spend all that money on artificial stuff when I could use what God gave me (well, let's hope he gives me enough) and use that money to buy fun stuff for Luke! The coolest thing about the class was them talking about getting skin to skin contact with the baby from the minute he's born, up to an hour, right on my chest! The teacher said a lot of Moms will just fall asleep like that for a little while, with that warm little baby right there being cuddled. I told Kelsey nothing sounds nicer to me. He said later, "I have to admit...that is pretty special. Moms are lucky they get to do that." Then later in the class, he asked the instructor if Dads could give skin to skin contact too! She said it was a great idea and to hold him as much as possible at first. I can just imagine us all laying in bed napping and cuddling. Can't wait!
The other day we were at Mochi, which is this really yummy yogurt place where you get your own toppings, and I saw a Mom with her baby eating yogurt and just seeing her made me want to cry. I just can't wait to see his little face, and although 6 weeks doesn't seem like a lot, it feels like an eternity!!
We had our childbirth ed class (the first 2 sessions) so I'm going to wait till it's all done to write about that.
Here is my picture from last Wednesday (33 weeks).
Monday, October 4, 2010
Nesting
I've got some major nesting going on, at least I think that's what's going on.
I got on a kick this weekend to clean. Maybe it was because Kelsey was gone Friday and Saturday and I had nothing better to do. I started with laundry folding, then decided to tackle our bathroom which was absolutely disgusting. I've been meaning to scrub the tub, but it's way too hard to get on my hands and knees and do it. I just felt so much better -- more at ease -- when it was done.
Then I started on Luke's nursery and his clothes. He has A LOT of clothes! We bought some bins that will go in the storage unit. It's great because they are little and his things wont' get lost in the shuffle.
Here are the bins. They match the bedding (brown, green and blue). The brown ones have little monkey faces on them. So far I have onesies; sleepers; socks, hats and pants; receving blankets; and bibs & burp cloths. I have about 4-6 more bins, so I'll have plenty of room for other stuff.
How cute are all these socks?? They barely covered the bottom of this tiny laundry basket. LOVE IT!
I continued with my productivity by cleaning out underneath the guest bathroom sink and making room for his bath supplies and his tub, then making his own shelf in our hallway linen closet. This is where I have his little hooded towels, washcloths, crib sheets and blankets.
I have never been able to fold fitted sheets, and as I was folding his freshly cleaned stuff, I realized that was ALL the sheets he has! So they look terrible. Mom has tried to teach me and I do ALRIGHT, but it still bugs me. I like having things really folded nicely.
I went in his room and tried to put things away as much as I could, but there is still so much to do with the nursery. We need to get the curtains hung, the furniture painted, toy box painted and covered (Kelsey is going to put padding on top and make it an extra seat) and also paint the little wooden LUKE letters that will go in his room. We also have some cute stick ons for the walls and some other artwork to hang. I know we still have two months, but that is going to go by so quickly.
I literally worked until my body just gave out, but it felt so good to be able to look at all those clothes and make some sense of it all.
A couple friends had babies this weekend, and seeing their pictures makes me want to see him even more!
I got on a kick this weekend to clean. Maybe it was because Kelsey was gone Friday and Saturday and I had nothing better to do. I started with laundry folding, then decided to tackle our bathroom which was absolutely disgusting. I've been meaning to scrub the tub, but it's way too hard to get on my hands and knees and do it. I just felt so much better -- more at ease -- when it was done.
Then I started on Luke's nursery and his clothes. He has A LOT of clothes! We bought some bins that will go in the storage unit. It's great because they are little and his things wont' get lost in the shuffle.
I continued with my productivity by cleaning out underneath the guest bathroom sink and making room for his bath supplies and his tub, then making his own shelf in our hallway linen closet. This is where I have his little hooded towels, washcloths, crib sheets and blankets.
I have never been able to fold fitted sheets, and as I was folding his freshly cleaned stuff, I realized that was ALL the sheets he has! So they look terrible. Mom has tried to teach me and I do ALRIGHT, but it still bugs me. I like having things really folded nicely.
I went in his room and tried to put things away as much as I could, but there is still so much to do with the nursery. We need to get the curtains hung, the furniture painted, toy box painted and covered (Kelsey is going to put padding on top and make it an extra seat) and also paint the little wooden LUKE letters that will go in his room. We also have some cute stick ons for the walls and some other artwork to hang. I know we still have two months, but that is going to go by so quickly.
I literally worked until my body just gave out, but it felt so good to be able to look at all those clothes and make some sense of it all.
A couple friends had babies this weekend, and seeing their pictures makes me want to see him even more!
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Obsessively shopping for baby
Y'all, there is just way too much cute stuff in this world for babies.
Last week we got our stroller and carseat, swing and some other stuff at a huge consignment sale called JBF (Just Between Friends). It's held twice yearly and people take their stuff there to sell from all around the area. It started last Sunday and we didn't get there until Thursday so we didn't expect much from it. So as we're walking in, and there she sits -- the exact stroller that we have on our registry...same color and style and brand. I thought to myself, this is way too good to be true. We checked it out -- "kick the tires" if you will -- and didn't see a flaw or stain on the thing. The note said the seller's baby grew out of it too quickly and they didn't use it more than 6 or 7 times.
It's a travel system where the car seat fits into the stroller, but then it is a regular stroller after he gets bigger than 22 lbs. I have no idea when that'll be because I know nothing whatsoever about babies. But I do know that this is like, the mid-range sedan of baby strollers. I am going to say the "Caddy" of strollers because clearly it's not, but it does turn on a dime and folds up REALLY easily (with one hand).
The best part was that this stroller retails for over $300 and we got it for $200! It was a steal.
We also got a baby swing:
Luke, if you're reading this later, let me tell you how much your Daddy LOVES zebras. It's his favorite non-domestic animal and there is a zebra right there on the tray, so he felt that it spoke to him. It also has jungle critters all over and matches our monkey pack-n-play. This is a Graco swing with 6 settings, nature sounds and classical music sounds. It retails for probably $80 to $100 and we got it for $40!
We also picked up some cheap Christmas stuff, since he'll be around 1 month at Christmas:
STUPID CUTE. Look at the little fake boots! Now all we need is a santa hat!
Also stupid cute! Two bibs for the holidays and that little hat was only 50 cents. I have a plan for that hat and his newborn pictures...stay tuned.
We are pretty much good to go on clothes, so the only other thing I found at the sale was a little sleeper that was $1. We also found a diaper warmer for $8, some little toys and some safety equipment (latches and that kind of thing). All together we spent $289, which is less than JUST the stroller retail! I think we made out!
Last week we got our stroller and carseat, swing and some other stuff at a huge consignment sale called JBF (Just Between Friends). It's held twice yearly and people take their stuff there to sell from all around the area. It started last Sunday and we didn't get there until Thursday so we didn't expect much from it. So as we're walking in, and there she sits -- the exact stroller that we have on our registry...same color and style and brand. I thought to myself, this is way too good to be true. We checked it out -- "kick the tires" if you will -- and didn't see a flaw or stain on the thing. The note said the seller's baby grew out of it too quickly and they didn't use it more than 6 or 7 times.
The best part was that this stroller retails for over $300 and we got it for $200! It was a steal.
We also got a baby swing:
Luke, if you're reading this later, let me tell you how much your Daddy LOVES zebras. It's his favorite non-domestic animal and there is a zebra right there on the tray, so he felt that it spoke to him. It also has jungle critters all over and matches our monkey pack-n-play. This is a Graco swing with 6 settings, nature sounds and classical music sounds. It retails for probably $80 to $100 and we got it for $40!
We also picked up some cheap Christmas stuff, since he'll be around 1 month at Christmas:
We are pretty much good to go on clothes, so the only other thing I found at the sale was a little sleeper that was $1. We also found a diaper warmer for $8, some little toys and some safety equipment (latches and that kind of thing). All together we spent $289, which is less than JUST the stroller retail! I think we made out!
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Week 31 doctor's appointment
I just got back from my bi-monthly doctor's appointment and all is well. My blood pressure was up at the beginning of the appointment, but then dropped substantially by the end. I think I just get nervous about the appointment (even though I know what's going to happen) and then calm down by the end. I have to tell them that every time. I think it's weird that they can remember my jewelry or shoes, but not something like that! But I can't complain because the staff at my clinic are really amazing people. I gained I think two pounds. I can't remember what my weight was last time, but if I remember correctly, I was 2 pounds more today. Notice I don't put my weight on here. I'm not that bold!
I didn't have any swelling and really haven't much at all. Sometimes when I get hot or I haven't drank enough water, my feet get a little swollen, but overall I've been feeling good as far as that goes. She put the doppler on my belly to hear his heartbeat and as usual, he squirmed. He really shows his personality when she does this. He will move away from it and she has to literally push on my belly and pin him against the doppler, then his heart speeds up like he's mad. I would be mad too if my room suddenly got smaller! I mean honestly, I get mad when Kelsey is "in my space" in our queen sized bed! So he's moody like his Mom, I guess. She said she could feel some kicks from "an extremity" and she couldn't feel his head at the top, so looks like he's pointing toward the exit (although he still has lots of room to move around and she said he still flip flops a lot, most likely).
As far as that goes, Luke is moving around pretty much all the time. Starting probably Sunday night until this morning, he was moving constantly. it's not just kicks, either, it's full turns. I'd really love to know what he's doing in there! I also wish I could find out how big he is. There are just so many questions I still have, like what he looks like, when he'll get here, how big he'll be. It's a lesson in patience, that's for sure!
I've been feeling really good so far.It's starting to get a little more difficult to get out of chairs and turn over in bed. Sometimes I'll drop something and wonder if it's worth it to pick it up. But I really can't complain..I've had a really healthy pregnancy so far and haven't experienced many of the really bad symptoms (yet) that other women have. Maybe that makes up for the rough first three months! I haven't had many cravings, although I'm starting to notice a little food aversion popping back up -- things will smell "off" or bad to me that I liked before. I still crave sweets of all kinds, so I'm thankful my glucose was normal! That would have been bad news bears. Today's specific craving is hash browns..how weird is that?
Here is my week 31 picture, and thanks to "Aunt Sis" (I keep wanting to call her that) for reminding me about it!
I feel like I look like a house! But dresses always make me look bigger, I think. The arm is strategically placed to minimize flab. Mom didn't raise no dummy.
I didn't have any swelling and really haven't much at all. Sometimes when I get hot or I haven't drank enough water, my feet get a little swollen, but overall I've been feeling good as far as that goes. She put the doppler on my belly to hear his heartbeat and as usual, he squirmed. He really shows his personality when she does this. He will move away from it and she has to literally push on my belly and pin him against the doppler, then his heart speeds up like he's mad. I would be mad too if my room suddenly got smaller! I mean honestly, I get mad when Kelsey is "in my space" in our queen sized bed! So he's moody like his Mom, I guess. She said she could feel some kicks from "an extremity" and she couldn't feel his head at the top, so looks like he's pointing toward the exit (although he still has lots of room to move around and she said he still flip flops a lot, most likely).
As far as that goes, Luke is moving around pretty much all the time. Starting probably Sunday night until this morning, he was moving constantly. it's not just kicks, either, it's full turns. I'd really love to know what he's doing in there! I also wish I could find out how big he is. There are just so many questions I still have, like what he looks like, when he'll get here, how big he'll be. It's a lesson in patience, that's for sure!
I've been feeling really good so far.It's starting to get a little more difficult to get out of chairs and turn over in bed. Sometimes I'll drop something and wonder if it's worth it to pick it up. But I really can't complain..I've had a really healthy pregnancy so far and haven't experienced many of the really bad symptoms (yet) that other women have. Maybe that makes up for the rough first three months! I haven't had many cravings, although I'm starting to notice a little food aversion popping back up -- things will smell "off" or bad to me that I liked before. I still crave sweets of all kinds, so I'm thankful my glucose was normal! That would have been bad news bears. Today's specific craving is hash browns..how weird is that?
Here is my week 31 picture, and thanks to "Aunt Sis" (I keep wanting to call her that) for reminding me about it!
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
30 weeks and an ultrasound
Tomorrow marks my 30th week of pregnancy. My due date used to be November 27, but at the last ultrasound they told us it was November 25, which means he's officially due on Thanksgiving day (sorry buddy, guess Mommy and Daddy didn't think about that). I'm sure he'll at some point in his life have a birthday on Thanksgiving, which is sort of crappy, but the upside is he'll probably get the day of from school for his birthday!
Last Thursday (at 29 weeks) was my ultrasound to check his weight. Last time they told us he was on the "light side" and that's why we had to come back for this one. By the way, the hospital charges $1400 for a level 2 ultrasound! That's just ridiculous, especially since the residents were basically using it as a teaching tool. Anyway, we aren't responsible for all that, but just glad we have insurance. So last week's ultrasound was at my regular doctor's office with a tech. She said he was doing great. He had all his parts growing well, the heart was strong and kidneys were doing their thing. We got to watch him move around a little which was so fun. He was folded in half with his legs over top of his head, and sucking on his little fingers:
The best part was that we learned he's in the 50th percentile, so he's a normal little baby! It's comforting to know he's growing like he should and doing all the things he needs to be doing.
I'm feeling him move all the time now. The first thing he does is kick me in the belly to wake me up and the last thing he does is kick me to sleep. Kelsey can see him move around from the outside now. The first time he saw it he freaked out a little, because it is sort of an unusual phenomenon. He said it looked like an alien was going to pop out! Well, that's sort of true. Except it wont' pop out THROUGH my stomach.
Yesterday I had my regular check-up and it was more good news. My blood pressure was up at the last couple of appointments, but yesterday it was nice and low. I had only gained one pound since last week. Added to the last appointment, I've only gained 2 pounds in the last month, so I was happy about that. I am not as hungry as I was earlier in my second trimester. I mean it used to be that I couldn't stop eating to save my life, but now I can stop after breakfast and lunch and have a sensible dinner with a few snacks in between. I don't need that late night bowl of cereal anymore to get me through the night either! My doctor gave me a Z-Pack because I've been fighting a cold for over a week, but besides that said everything looked great. I feel very blessed so far to have a healthy pregnancy!
Last Thursday (at 29 weeks) was my ultrasound to check his weight. Last time they told us he was on the "light side" and that's why we had to come back for this one. By the way, the hospital charges $1400 for a level 2 ultrasound! That's just ridiculous, especially since the residents were basically using it as a teaching tool. Anyway, we aren't responsible for all that, but just glad we have insurance. So last week's ultrasound was at my regular doctor's office with a tech. She said he was doing great. He had all his parts growing well, the heart was strong and kidneys were doing their thing. We got to watch him move around a little which was so fun. He was folded in half with his legs over top of his head, and sucking on his little fingers:
I'm feeling him move all the time now. The first thing he does is kick me in the belly to wake me up and the last thing he does is kick me to sleep. Kelsey can see him move around from the outside now. The first time he saw it he freaked out a little, because it is sort of an unusual phenomenon. He said it looked like an alien was going to pop out! Well, that's sort of true. Except it wont' pop out THROUGH my stomach.
Yesterday I had my regular check-up and it was more good news. My blood pressure was up at the last couple of appointments, but yesterday it was nice and low. I had only gained one pound since last week. Added to the last appointment, I've only gained 2 pounds in the last month, so I was happy about that. I am not as hungry as I was earlier in my second trimester. I mean it used to be that I couldn't stop eating to save my life, but now I can stop after breakfast and lunch and have a sensible dinner with a few snacks in between. I don't need that late night bowl of cereal anymore to get me through the night either! My doctor gave me a Z-Pack because I've been fighting a cold for over a week, but besides that said everything looked great. I feel very blessed so far to have a healthy pregnancy!
Thursday, September 9, 2010
Some SERIOUS Monkeying Around
Sarah here, hijacking this baby blog once again to report on Amanda's first baby shower. I knew I wanted to throw a monkey-themed shower and, thanks to my good friend GOOGLE, I found the most perfect baby invitations from this place called Naptime Productions.
How cute are these? We had numerous discussions over this past weekend over which baby monkey is our favorite (mine is the one on top, holding his toes). I used leftover invitations as decorations for the garland and cake.
Then my mom found these really cute plates and napkins. At first, should could only find "It's a Girl" pink monkey plates, but found 1 set of "It's a Boy" blue monkey plates.
There were 2 parts to the baby shower. The first part was the live-and-in-person shower. It was a small gathering, which was perfect for Amanda because she doesn't like a TON of attention on herself. We ate sub sandwiches, fruit, chips and cake; played a few baby shower games; and opened lots of presents.
The second part of the shower was a virtual shower. Our mom wasn't able to come to the shower, but we wanted her to feel like she was there, We set up Amanda's laptop and broadcast the baby shower on uStream, just like Chad Ochocinco used on The Ultimate Catch. We had people from all over the world watching the baby shower, including our parents in Cincinnati, Kelsey's parents in West Virginia, and our friends Dave and Ami in England.
How cute are these? We had numerous discussions over this past weekend over which baby monkey is our favorite (mine is the one on top, holding his toes). I used leftover invitations as decorations for the garland and cake.
Then my mom found these really cute plates and napkins. At first, should could only find "It's a Girl" pink monkey plates, but found 1 set of "It's a Boy" blue monkey plates.
There were 2 parts to the baby shower. The first part was the live-and-in-person shower. It was a small gathering, which was perfect for Amanda because she doesn't like a TON of attention on herself. We ate sub sandwiches, fruit, chips and cake; played a few baby shower games; and opened lots of presents.
The second part of the shower was a virtual shower. Our mom wasn't able to come to the shower, but we wanted her to feel like she was there, We set up Amanda's laptop and broadcast the baby shower on uStream, just like Chad Ochocinco used on The Ultimate Catch. We had people from all over the world watching the baby shower, including our parents in Cincinnati, Kelsey's parents in West Virginia, and our friends Dave and Ami in England.
Here is the set up for the virtual part of the shower. I had my laptop set up to chat with our online guests, and my phone beside me the whole time texting with my mom. I think both parts of the shower were a big success. My favorite part of the night was when my husband texted me a quote from my mom: "This is priceless" proving that even 800 miles apart, my family can do some serious monkeying around.
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Week 28 (?) Bump Pictures
Amanda's sister, Sarah, here. I'm hijacking this blog for the next couple days while Amanda recuperates from a cold. I hear that a pregnancy cold is the second worst illness in the world, only to be topped by the Bieber Fever.
I visited with Amanda over Labor Day weekend and hosted her first baby shower. It was so great to see Sister's growing bump and to FEEL my little nephew kicking! I hadn't seen her since our cruise in June, so her belly was quite a bit bigger. ALSO, did you know pregnant ladies get dark lines on their belly? It was the strangest thing to see on MY sister's belly.
I told both Amanda and Kelsey that they needed to get in a better habit of taking baby bump pictures. I want to see the weekly progress because I'm not there to see the progress in person. Who knows, there might be a baby bump scrapbook in their future!! I'm going to start sending them weekly reminders, but I am officially declaring Wednesdays as BUMP day. To get them started, here are some bump pictures from this weekend (week 28 according to the LilyPie).
I visited with Amanda over Labor Day weekend and hosted her first baby shower. It was so great to see Sister's growing bump and to FEEL my little nephew kicking! I hadn't seen her since our cruise in June, so her belly was quite a bit bigger. ALSO, did you know pregnant ladies get dark lines on their belly? It was the strangest thing to see on MY sister's belly.
I told both Amanda and Kelsey that they needed to get in a better habit of taking baby bump pictures. I want to see the weekly progress because I'm not there to see the progress in person. Who knows, there might be a baby bump scrapbook in their future!! I'm going to start sending them weekly reminders, but I am officially declaring Wednesdays as BUMP day. To get them started, here are some bump pictures from this weekend (week 28 according to the LilyPie).
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Week 27 Doctor's Appointment
I just got back from my Week 27 Doctor's Appointment. Typically they wouldn't have me back two weeks in a row, but she wanted to check out my blood pressure AND it was time for my glucose screening. The kit they gave me last week had instructions that said you should get to the appointment early and tell them you need to have your blood drawn exactly one hour after taking the liquid stuff they give you. I have been a nervous wreck about it, not only because I'm afraid I'll mess up the instructions, but because there is a blood draw involved. So this morning I woke up early and kept a hawk eye on the clock to make sure I drank the stuff one hour before. I've heard horror stories about it, but honestly it tasted like fruit punch flavored Kool Aid.
So I got to the appointment 15 minutes early and they took me back to get my weight and blood pressure. i was trying to keep it cool the whole time, even though I was so nervous. I didn't gain anything (thank goodness) and then the nurse took me into the room for my blood pressure. It was something like 156/89 and she said "you're nervous huh?" and I'm thinking, UNDERSTATEMENT OF THE YEAR. I am gonna be in bad shape when I go into labor if I'm that nervous at my appointment. So she got another blood pressure thing out and took it on my other arm, where it was 136/85. that was a little better, especially accounting for how nervous I was. When my NP came in, she did the belly measure, checked for swelling and listened to his heart (belly measured perfect, no swelling, perfect heart beat). Then she took my BP again and it was back down to 124/82.
Next was my blood draw. I get SO nervous about getting blood drawn and it was the first time without Kelsey by my side, so I was not looking forward to it. The girl was really nice, though, and it was over before I knew it. They took 4 vials of my precious blood...no wonder I feel yucky now!
The next step was the Rhogam shot. This one is to add antibodies to my blood so it wont' compete with Luke's (in case he's RH positive). Now let's talk about where they put this shot. The girl says, "this shot goes into your hip!" and I reluctantly laid down on my side and tugged down my jeans. She said, "actually I need to go just a little lower." I pulled more. "No, loooweerr....it's actually not the hip, it's right in your cheek." So I pulled my jeans down and there went the shot right in my butt. I mean honestly. It wasn't bad at all, over before I even realized it, but still.
I walked out and made my next appointment, and felt just the tiniest bit woozy. I sat down and fanned myself and felt fine after that.
Next appointment will be another ultrasound to check his weight! I'm really looking forward to that one.
So I got to the appointment 15 minutes early and they took me back to get my weight and blood pressure. i was trying to keep it cool the whole time, even though I was so nervous. I didn't gain anything (thank goodness) and then the nurse took me into the room for my blood pressure. It was something like 156/89 and she said "you're nervous huh?" and I'm thinking, UNDERSTATEMENT OF THE YEAR. I am gonna be in bad shape when I go into labor if I'm that nervous at my appointment. So she got another blood pressure thing out and took it on my other arm, where it was 136/85. that was a little better, especially accounting for how nervous I was. When my NP came in, she did the belly measure, checked for swelling and listened to his heart (belly measured perfect, no swelling, perfect heart beat). Then she took my BP again and it was back down to 124/82.
Next was my blood draw. I get SO nervous about getting blood drawn and it was the first time without Kelsey by my side, so I was not looking forward to it. The girl was really nice, though, and it was over before I knew it. They took 4 vials of my precious blood...no wonder I feel yucky now!
The next step was the Rhogam shot. This one is to add antibodies to my blood so it wont' compete with Luke's (in case he's RH positive). Now let's talk about where they put this shot. The girl says, "this shot goes into your hip!" and I reluctantly laid down on my side and tugged down my jeans. She said, "actually I need to go just a little lower." I pulled more. "No, loooweerr....it's actually not the hip, it's right in your cheek." So I pulled my jeans down and there went the shot right in my butt. I mean honestly. It wasn't bad at all, over before I even realized it, but still.
I walked out and made my next appointment, and felt just the tiniest bit woozy. I sat down and fanned myself and felt fine after that.
Next appointment will be another ultrasound to check his weight! I'm really looking forward to that one.
Monday, August 30, 2010
Bladders behind my eyes
At my doc appointment the other day I was telling my doctor about how emotional I've been getting lately and she said, "It's like you have bladders behind your eyes!" I hadn't heard that before but it's so true. Everything makes me cry, but not always in sad way. Sometimes the tears just come and I can't control it! The other day I cried because someone said something mean to Kelsey. It's not even pretty tears either -- it's big, fat, ugly sobs and contorted facial features. They only last for a couple minutes, but sometimes I'll get the "blues" for a couple hours after.
One night we were watching Mythbusters and they were doing a myth about how far a tree could bend before it broke. They broke several trees and I just got so emotional about those darn trees!
The other day I was driving home from work and a new Brad Paisley song came on. I hadn't heard it, so I listened to the words, and that was HUGE mistake. It was a song about him having a son. Here it is and here are the lyrics:
Well that last little bit really threw me over the edge. I started BAWLING right there on the main road from work. I could not help it, I just sobbed for a mile. Kelsey called and was worried -- he asked what was wrong and I told him about the song. He sort of giggled and said, "aw, baby that's sweet." He's been really good about trying to calm me down and sooth me even when I am being crazy and irrational. It comes with the territory I guess!
One night we were watching Mythbusters and they were doing a myth about how far a tree could bend before it broke. They broke several trees and I just got so emotional about those darn trees!
The other day I was driving home from work and a new Brad Paisley song came on. I hadn't heard it, so I listened to the words, and that was HUGE mistake. It was a song about him having a son. Here it is and here are the lyrics:
- I remember sayin' I don't care either way
Just as long as he or she is healthy I'm ok
Then the doctor pointed to the corner of the screen
And said "Ya see that thing right there well ya know what that means"
And I started wondering who he was going to be
And I thought heaven help us if hes anything like me
He'll probably climb a tree to tall and ride hes bike to fast
End up every summer wearin something in a cast
Hes gonna throw a ball and break some glass in a window down the street
Hes gonna get in trouble oh hes gonna get in fights
Im gonna lose my temper and some sleep
It safe to say that im gonna get my pay back if hes anything like me
I can see him right now knees all skinned up
With a magnifying glass tryin to melt the Tonka truck
Wont he be a sight with his football helmet on
That'll be his first love til his first love comes along
He'll get his heart broke by the time hes in his teens
And heaven help him if hes anything like me
He'll probably stay out to late and drive his car to fast
Get a speeding ticket he'll pay for mowing grass
Hes gonna get caught skippin class and be ground for a week
Hes gonna get in trouble we're gonna get in fights
Im gonna lose my temper and some sleep
Its safe to say that im gonna get my pay back if hes anything like me
Hes gonna love me and hate me along the way
Years are gonna fly by I already dread the day
Hes gonna hug hes momma hes gonna shake my hand
Hes gonna act like he cant wait to leave
But as he drives out he'll cry hes eyes out
If hes anything like me,
There's worse folks to be like,
Aw he'll be alright if hes anything like me
Well that last little bit really threw me over the edge. I started BAWLING right there on the main road from work. I could not help it, I just sobbed for a mile. Kelsey called and was worried -- he asked what was wrong and I told him about the song. He sort of giggled and said, "aw, baby that's sweet." He's been really good about trying to calm me down and sooth me even when I am being crazy and irrational. It comes with the territory I guess!
Thursday, August 26, 2010
Week 26 doctor's appointment
I had my doctor's appointment for week 26 on Tuesday and it went well! I'd only gained about 3 pounds, which was great for me. I had gained 10 pounds in one month so I needed to slow down. I know this is because I've been watching what I eat and trying to walk on the treadmill at least 3 times a week for 30 minutes or more. I have heard several people say, "sometimes babies just have growth spurts!" so that's what I'm hoping happened. I never thought I'd be happy about ONLY gaining 3 pounds but I guess that's life as a preg!
They took my blood pressure and it was a little bit high (like 134/86) and the nurse gave me a stern talking to. The nurse doctor came in and I told her about the BP and she said she'd take it after and see what happens. She measured me and then listened to his sweet little heart...I'll never get tired of hearing it! His heart beat was 154/minute. She said it was "perfect" and then said "but this baby ALWAYS has a great heart rate." I said, "he get it from his momma!" (just kidding, but I was definitely thinking it) She asked if I'd had any nausea, headaches, etc. and I told her I hadn't. My headaches have really subsided since early second trimester, although I still get sinus headaches occasionally. She said my legs and arms looked good with no swelling. I'm actually surprised I haven't had the leg swelling I've heard so much about...of course, I have 3 more months! She told me to keep doing what I'm doing and come back in a week to re-check my BP and do the glucose screening, then also get a shot of Rhogam because my blood type could interfere with his. It's typical to have this between 26 and 28 weeks as a precaution during delivery.
I'm actually feeling really good. I know as soon as I type this, I'll probably start feeling like absolute crap! ha My hunger has actually lessened a little. I don't get the hunger pangs like I did a few weeks earlier where if I didn't eat I'd feel sick. I can balance my meals better that way. As far as getting around, I still get winded easily and sweat if I even LOOK at a thermometer that's over 80 degrees, but at least I can move and walk and feel OK.
He's kicking a lot more lately. There are days when he will kick all day long, other days when he only kicks a little bit. It's so weird feeling him in the bottom of my belly, then in the top. I always wonder what he's doing in there.
Yesterday I took this picture:
That's my belly looking down! I think this is a cool picture and something I don't want to forget. I love having him right there in my belly with me all the time..like a little companion. I texted Sarah and said "look...Luke says, 'get that girlie necklace off of me!'" I like to put words in his mouth.
Well that's the major update for now. Thanks Sis for reminding me constantly to update this!
They took my blood pressure and it was a little bit high (like 134/86) and the nurse gave me a stern talking to. The nurse doctor came in and I told her about the BP and she said she'd take it after and see what happens. She measured me and then listened to his sweet little heart...I'll never get tired of hearing it! His heart beat was 154/minute. She said it was "perfect" and then said "but this baby ALWAYS has a great heart rate." I said, "he get it from his momma!" (just kidding, but I was definitely thinking it) She asked if I'd had any nausea, headaches, etc. and I told her I hadn't. My headaches have really subsided since early second trimester, although I still get sinus headaches occasionally. She said my legs and arms looked good with no swelling. I'm actually surprised I haven't had the leg swelling I've heard so much about...of course, I have 3 more months! She told me to keep doing what I'm doing and come back in a week to re-check my BP and do the glucose screening, then also get a shot of Rhogam because my blood type could interfere with his. It's typical to have this between 26 and 28 weeks as a precaution during delivery.
I'm actually feeling really good. I know as soon as I type this, I'll probably start feeling like absolute crap! ha My hunger has actually lessened a little. I don't get the hunger pangs like I did a few weeks earlier where if I didn't eat I'd feel sick. I can balance my meals better that way. As far as getting around, I still get winded easily and sweat if I even LOOK at a thermometer that's over 80 degrees, but at least I can move and walk and feel OK.
He's kicking a lot more lately. There are days when he will kick all day long, other days when he only kicks a little bit. It's so weird feeling him in the bottom of my belly, then in the top. I always wonder what he's doing in there.
Yesterday I took this picture:
Well that's the major update for now. Thanks Sis for reminding me constantly to update this!
Monday, August 16, 2010
Ultrasound and updates
I'm terrible at updating this blog, so for the people who read it -- sorry! I actually don't' have a whole lot to update regularly so my sister keeps me in line and reminds me that I have this baby blog to tend to!
Friday we had our third ultrasound. This one was a "Level 2" which means it was more details (although it didn't look any more detailed to me). I think the main thing is that a doctor looks at it along with the ultrasound tech. So anyway, our appointment was at 2, so we got there right on time but still had to wait for at least 30 minutes. A resident called us in and she asked if it was OK for her to do the ultrasound and for a tech to come in after. Apparently it was her first ultrasound ever (or at least seemed like it) because she fumbled through the whole thing. The best part is when she kept it on my belly just long enough to watch Luke stretch and kick when I could feel it! It was the first time to see him and feel him at the same time. I started laughing and it made the ultrasound image shake.
An ultrasound tech came in to check on the resident and they saw him shaking his little banana at the camera. Of course they froze on it and took some pictures! Kelsey is so proud of his son's private parts, and I guess that's a guy thing. I've talked to lots of Mom's of boys and their hubbys feel the same way! They said it had been a long time since they saw a baby showing off that much. I hope that doesn't mean he's going to be a show off. :)
We waited about 30 more minutes for the doctor to come in. He brought in a resident who looked no older than our interns at work. The doctor sat down on the table with me and let the resident take the driver's seat. They went over every little part in detail. I felt like I was watching Sesame Street, Medical Edition. The doctor would say, "What's this funny looking thing?" and the resident would say "the stomach sir!" Then they found my extremely full bladder and got a kick out of looking at that.
The doctor gave him good "grades" on his development. He said everything looked great. He had an "impeccable nasal bone" and had just enough fluid to float around in. It was comforting to know that everything is going OK and hear it from a doctor. Not that our regular ultrasound tech doesn't' know her stuff, but the doctor was really thorough. We did find out that he is a little on the light side (doctor's words) but that it wasn't anything to worry about. he said some babies are line backers, some of them are gymnasts (or point guards, as Kelsey said later). I sort of hope he stays tiny so he'll be easier to push out!
So that's all the news with my little one. He is growing daily and likes to kick a lot. He hates when I wear clothes that are close to my belly and will kick at them all the time. I always wonder what he's thinking, if it's getting in his way and he's trying to kick it away from him. I also like to picture him dressed for whatever occasion I'm dressed for: during business meetings, wearing a little necktie; a trip to the beach he'd be wearing swim trunks. Hey, I can't see him, might as well imagine him!
Friday we had our third ultrasound. This one was a "Level 2" which means it was more details (although it didn't look any more detailed to me). I think the main thing is that a doctor looks at it along with the ultrasound tech. So anyway, our appointment was at 2, so we got there right on time but still had to wait for at least 30 minutes. A resident called us in and she asked if it was OK for her to do the ultrasound and for a tech to come in after. Apparently it was her first ultrasound ever (or at least seemed like it) because she fumbled through the whole thing. The best part is when she kept it on my belly just long enough to watch Luke stretch and kick when I could feel it! It was the first time to see him and feel him at the same time. I started laughing and it made the ultrasound image shake.
An ultrasound tech came in to check on the resident and they saw him shaking his little banana at the camera. Of course they froze on it and took some pictures! Kelsey is so proud of his son's private parts, and I guess that's a guy thing. I've talked to lots of Mom's of boys and their hubbys feel the same way! They said it had been a long time since they saw a baby showing off that much. I hope that doesn't mean he's going to be a show off. :)
We waited about 30 more minutes for the doctor to come in. He brought in a resident who looked no older than our interns at work. The doctor sat down on the table with me and let the resident take the driver's seat. They went over every little part in detail. I felt like I was watching Sesame Street, Medical Edition. The doctor would say, "What's this funny looking thing?" and the resident would say "the stomach sir!" Then they found my extremely full bladder and got a kick out of looking at that.
The doctor gave him good "grades" on his development. He said everything looked great. He had an "impeccable nasal bone" and had just enough fluid to float around in. It was comforting to know that everything is going OK and hear it from a doctor. Not that our regular ultrasound tech doesn't' know her stuff, but the doctor was really thorough. We did find out that he is a little on the light side (doctor's words) but that it wasn't anything to worry about. he said some babies are line backers, some of them are gymnasts (or point guards, as Kelsey said later). I sort of hope he stays tiny so he'll be easier to push out!
So that's all the news with my little one. He is growing daily and likes to kick a lot. He hates when I wear clothes that are close to my belly and will kick at them all the time. I always wonder what he's thinking, if it's getting in his way and he's trying to kick it away from him. I also like to picture him dressed for whatever occasion I'm dressed for: during business meetings, wearing a little necktie; a trip to the beach he'd be wearing swim trunks. Hey, I can't see him, might as well imagine him!
Monday, August 2, 2010
Pregancy isn't that bad!
The other day I read somebody's status on Facebook, and it was a girl who was complaining about how much she hates being pregnant and it made me sad. I know that it's not all peaches and cream, but you're carrying your CHILD...how is that not a labor of love? What if your child heard you saying that? I know it's silly but I think pregnancy is really wonderful and so special..every time I see my little bump everything that is hurting just fades.
Although I'm still considered to be in the "honeymoon" of pregnancy, I have had a few aches and pains and "not fun" stuff. The heat is especially bad for me. We've had record breaking heat lately in Gainesville, so I try to stay in as much as possible. This weekend we did go out a few times, but luckily Sunday was rainy all day and it really cooled things down. When I get heated up, it's hard for me to cool down, thanks to this little space heater I'm growing. I get winded pretty easily, too, although since I've been trying to walk in the evenings it hasn't been as bad.
Then there's my bladder. It was small before a tiny person was laying on it, now it wont' hold any amount of liquid before I have to go to the bathroom. This morning I had a media assist, so I went to the bathroom, and had to go again after I got to the hospital! It's ridiculous. And I have trouble getting it all out, so I'm just sitting there with a marathon pee session where it comes out like a tiny stream.
I know it's going to get harder before he gets here, but I'm trying to enjoy every second of it, even the bad ones. You're only pregnant for the first time once. I mean, next time I'll have another child to take care of, so it's not going to be the same! I'm also going to come back and read this post when I'm 8 months pregnant and it's still 90 degrees in October. :)
Although I'm still considered to be in the "honeymoon" of pregnancy, I have had a few aches and pains and "not fun" stuff. The heat is especially bad for me. We've had record breaking heat lately in Gainesville, so I try to stay in as much as possible. This weekend we did go out a few times, but luckily Sunday was rainy all day and it really cooled things down. When I get heated up, it's hard for me to cool down, thanks to this little space heater I'm growing. I get winded pretty easily, too, although since I've been trying to walk in the evenings it hasn't been as bad.
Then there's my bladder. It was small before a tiny person was laying on it, now it wont' hold any amount of liquid before I have to go to the bathroom. This morning I had a media assist, so I went to the bathroom, and had to go again after I got to the hospital! It's ridiculous. And I have trouble getting it all out, so I'm just sitting there with a marathon pee session where it comes out like a tiny stream.
I know it's going to get harder before he gets here, but I'm trying to enjoy every second of it, even the bad ones. You're only pregnant for the first time once. I mean, next time I'll have another child to take care of, so it's not going to be the same! I'm also going to come back and read this post when I'm 8 months pregnant and it's still 90 degrees in October. :)
Friday, July 23, 2010
Flutters and kicks
Lately my baby boy has had so much more activity in his little home. I am starting to feel definite periods of awake and asleep. Food definitely triggers his movements. I like to think that he's sitting there sleeping and then gets a little pure energy burst, then decides he wants to dance. "I just want to express my emotions through the medium of DANCE!"
Or he might be Billy Blanks, the TaeBo guy, except only 11 oz.
I look forward to my after dinner movements most of all, when he's the most active. Tonight he was really punching and kicking. A few weeks ago it started out just small flutters, just like I read about online. It was like someone was moving a finger really softly on my tummy, except on the inside. Now I can feel the movements, stronger twitches and thumps and even, if I concentrate hard enough, I can feel him rolling around and twisting. It's really the best feeling and so special.
Kelsey tries to feel him, but his little arms and legs aren't quite strong enough for that (and the layer of fat on my belly that was there before isn't helping!) Kelsey tries to feel him, though! At night, while we're laying in bed, Kelsey will put his hand on my belly and close his eyes and try to feel him move. The problem is, I tend to jump and say, "DID YOU FEEL THAT ONE?" which defeats the purpose. Kelsey loves to hear me talk about him moving. It's the best connection he has right now.
I also love to hear the love in Kelsey's voice when he talks about the baby. We just both love him so much. Maybe someday when he's older (MUCH older) and can appreciate it, I'll print off these blog posts and make them into a book. I hope he always knows how much we have loved him, even when all we had were tiny little flutters.
Or he might be Billy Blanks, the TaeBo guy, except only 11 oz.
I look forward to my after dinner movements most of all, when he's the most active. Tonight he was really punching and kicking. A few weeks ago it started out just small flutters, just like I read about online. It was like someone was moving a finger really softly on my tummy, except on the inside. Now I can feel the movements, stronger twitches and thumps and even, if I concentrate hard enough, I can feel him rolling around and twisting. It's really the best feeling and so special.
Kelsey tries to feel him, but his little arms and legs aren't quite strong enough for that (and the layer of fat on my belly that was there before isn't helping!) Kelsey tries to feel him, though! At night, while we're laying in bed, Kelsey will put his hand on my belly and close his eyes and try to feel him move. The problem is, I tend to jump and say, "DID YOU FEEL THAT ONE?" which defeats the purpose. Kelsey loves to hear me talk about him moving. It's the best connection he has right now.
I also love to hear the love in Kelsey's voice when he talks about the baby. We just both love him so much. Maybe someday when he's older (MUCH older) and can appreciate it, I'll print off these blog posts and make them into a book. I hope he always knows how much we have loved him, even when all we had were tiny little flutters.
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
then I woke up
I've been having really weird dreams.
I dreamt that Kelsey was my boss, but we weren't married, but he was having an affair with me. And he kept trying to kiss me but I kept saying, "NO, I will not kiss you here, your wife will find out!" and we were hanging out in this house that had all these people in it -- like it was some sort of party or something. So we were just chilling in this house, and walked from one room to another and one of my old sorority sisters (who is pregnant) came in. There was this fluffy, big bed in the room I was walking into and she asked if I was going to be using it and I said no. She said, "oh great, I can't get any sleep with the kids in my room." And I looked in the other room and there were 3 little boys just hanging out playing with toys! I asked if they were hers and she said, "nope!" Then I woke up.
I also dreamt that there was a tornado coming and was about to hit my old house in Huntington. I was there with my Mom, Sis and our two old cats, as well as my cats. I could see that there was a really dark cloud in the distance and we were all sure it was a tornado, so I was trying to get all the cats rounded up and into carriers before it hit. One of them was outside, didn't escape but just lived out there, so I went to get it and noticed a small tornado had already hit our backyard and cut a path through the grass and knocked down some trees. It looked almost like someone had a runaway lawn mower or something. So I came inside with the cats and stood in the entryway between the kitchen and the living room because in my mind that was the safest place. I looked in the living room and my Mom and Sis were sitting on the couch right next to the window. I freaked out because that was the most UNsafe place for them to be! Then I woke up.
I also dreamt that I got a new cat, but it had a humongous head and a tiny body. It was just a baby kitten. I didn't know what on earth to do with it and was so concerned that something was wrong with it. Then suddenly, it was a bigger cat and was perfectly fine. So I said to Kelsey, "Look! The cat grew and now nothing is wrong with it!" Then I woke up.
I dreamt that Kelsey was my boss, but we weren't married, but he was having an affair with me. And he kept trying to kiss me but I kept saying, "NO, I will not kiss you here, your wife will find out!" and we were hanging out in this house that had all these people in it -- like it was some sort of party or something. So we were just chilling in this house, and walked from one room to another and one of my old sorority sisters (who is pregnant) came in. There was this fluffy, big bed in the room I was walking into and she asked if I was going to be using it and I said no. She said, "oh great, I can't get any sleep with the kids in my room." And I looked in the other room and there were 3 little boys just hanging out playing with toys! I asked if they were hers and she said, "nope!" Then I woke up.
I also dreamt that there was a tornado coming and was about to hit my old house in Huntington. I was there with my Mom, Sis and our two old cats, as well as my cats. I could see that there was a really dark cloud in the distance and we were all sure it was a tornado, so I was trying to get all the cats rounded up and into carriers before it hit. One of them was outside, didn't escape but just lived out there, so I went to get it and noticed a small tornado had already hit our backyard and cut a path through the grass and knocked down some trees. It looked almost like someone had a runaway lawn mower or something. So I came inside with the cats and stood in the entryway between the kitchen and the living room because in my mind that was the safest place. I looked in the living room and my Mom and Sis were sitting on the couch right next to the window. I freaked out because that was the most UNsafe place for them to be! Then I woke up.
I also dreamt that I got a new cat, but it had a humongous head and a tiny body. It was just a baby kitten. I didn't know what on earth to do with it and was so concerned that something was wrong with it. Then suddenly, it was a bigger cat and was perfectly fine. So I said to Kelsey, "Look! The cat grew and now nothing is wrong with it!" Then I woke up.
Sunday, July 18, 2010
Monkey man bedding
Last week, Kelsey and I went to Orlando to check out their consignment stores and register at Babies R Us. We ended up finding a consignment store that had a ton of clothes, all clearance, and bought the baby boy a whole bunch of cute outfits for $18 bucks! WE also got his crib at the store. It was brand new, in the box, never been opened, and sold for $265 new at Toys R Us. We ended up buying it for $175! It's absolutely gorgeous and just what we were looking for.
We stopped by another store that had all name brand stuff, and we checked out the bedding. We were looking for something "monkey" for his room, and had seen one kind online with blue, green, yellow and brown, but the blue looked a little more purple. Once we saw it in the store, it was the perfect shade of blue! So we decided that was the pattern and we'd look for it elsewhere or put it on the registry (or buy it online). It turns out this particular type is either really popular or being discontinued because it's almost impossible to find in the store and online. We ended up just ordering it from the company because we knew they had it in stock. We also registered for a bunch of extras, like the valance, lamps, wall decals, etc. We're ready to get his room ready!!
I came home yesterday and Kelsey hadn't said a word about the bedding getting to the house. I asked why we didn't get it and said he needed to call and complain. A few minutes later he called me into the hallway and opened the door to the nursery and there it was! He got it and put it all together. Now if I could only get him to make OUR bed that well.
Here it is! All ready for a sweet little baby.
We stopped by another store that had all name brand stuff, and we checked out the bedding. We were looking for something "monkey" for his room, and had seen one kind online with blue, green, yellow and brown, but the blue looked a little more purple. Once we saw it in the store, it was the perfect shade of blue! So we decided that was the pattern and we'd look for it elsewhere or put it on the registry (or buy it online). It turns out this particular type is either really popular or being discontinued because it's almost impossible to find in the store and online. We ended up just ordering it from the company because we knew they had it in stock. We also registered for a bunch of extras, like the valance, lamps, wall decals, etc. We're ready to get his room ready!!
I came home yesterday and Kelsey hadn't said a word about the bedding getting to the house. I asked why we didn't get it and said he needed to call and complain. A few minutes later he called me into the hallway and opened the door to the nursery and there it was! He got it and put it all together. Now if I could only get him to make OUR bed that well.
Friday, July 16, 2010
Week 20 highlights & more!
It's been awhile since I updated this blog, but Sissy is practically begging! So here are my week 20 (almost 21 at this point) highlights:
Today's Date: July 16
How Far Along: 20 weeks, 6 days
Total Weight Gain/Loss: Officially, 10 pounds. I'm a little afraid of gaining too much weight because eating is always an "issue" for me. It's easy to put on pounds when you're a short person anyway. So I hope at my next appt. there aren't extra numbers on that weight gain.
Maternity Clothes: I bought a few more maternity shirts this week from Old Navy because I didn't have many "casual" clothes for the weekends. I LOVE them! They are the perfect length and really light and cool. I'm wearing mostly maternity pants, too, but I can still wear some pants unbuttoned. I'm thinking about finding a way to turn some old black capris that I haven't been able to button in a LONG time into maternity pants.
Best Moment this week: Our second ultrasound yesterday when we saw our little man moving around, kicking, punching and yawning. We also got to see his little hands open and close. Every movement we see is like a little miracle!
Gender: It's a boy! We like the name Luke (I'll write about why in another blog) and keep going back to that one.
Movement: Mostly just flutters still, but more consistent. I also have been feeling lots of little twitches, which I believe are little hiccups.
Food Craving: I haven't been craving much this week, except tuna salad on a bagel (which of course I can't have). I have also had a craving the past couple of days for blueberry muffins.
What I Miss: Tuna, steak that isn't burnt to a crisp, hot dogs regularly!
Sleep: Last week was miserable because I kept going to bed late, so I've been trying to get to bed earlier and it's made a huge difference. Besides being woken up by BIZARRE dreams, I'm sleeping really well.
What I Am Looking Forward To: More of his movements!
Symptoms: I've been feeling really good. The only symptoms are a little bit of a backache if I sit for too long and I get winded easily. Also, there are times when my blood feels like it's pumping really hard. Maybe because there is 40% more blood in my body or something crazy like that!
Here's my pic for this week in a new top!
Friday, July 2, 2010
Week 18 Pregnancy Highlights
Today's Date: July 2
How Far Along: 18 weeks, 6 days
Total Weight Gain/Loss: Officially, 10 pounds. I'm trying to eat a little better as far as snacks are concerned, because I'm always hungry!
Maternity Clothes: I still have a handful of regular shirts I'm wearing, but I'm almost all in maternity pants (for work). I have three pairs of shorts that aren't maternity, but are stretchy, low and so comfy! I'm going to get some mileage out of them. I bought them bigger knowing it was going to wear them for awhile.
Best Moment this week: Feeling some little flutters after lunch. It was during a super boring meeting so it was nice to be able to feel my little guy moving around, even when I was almost bored to tears. At least one of us is having fun!
Gender: It's a boy! No names yet.
Movement: Still tiny flutters but I'm able to recognize them more and more. He likes to move around after I eat.
Food Craving: Fruit -- blueberries lately, and cheese. At night I've been hooked on Frosted Mini Wheats!
What I Miss: Tuna, sushi
Sleep: I slept really well this week because I was just exhausted every night.
What I Am Looking Forward To: Looking for more baby stuff and registering. We browsed for boy stuff last week and there are SO many cute boy clothes!
Symptoms: Constant hunger...like it absolutely never ends.
Here is the picture from this week!
Monday, June 28, 2010
It's a boy!
By now everybody knows that Kelsey and I are having a baby boy!
Before we got pregnant, we both said we wanted little boys. I don't know why, but it just seemed fun. I think for me, I just wanted Kelsey to have somebody to play with. He gets so bored during the summer when he's off work and I could just see him hanging out with his son all summer long!
I've been reading the old wives tales, trying to figure out what's swimming around in my belly, and they all pointed to girl. In fact, the day of my ultrasound I took a quiz and it said girl! I had been eating lots of fruits and sweets, gained weight all over, and had terrible morning sickness. A few of my friends who have or are having boys had none of that.
We told the tech we wanted to know -- no hesitation, in fact. She put the wand on my belly and BOOM, there he was! She said, "There's your little squirt!" It was a beautiful sight. This was my first ultrasound and first glimpse at our little baby. I hope I never forget seeing that little outline for the first time. She did an anatomy scan of his head, pointing out the two sections of his brain, and then she asked us again if we wanted to know the sex. Next thing you know, there's his little boy parts! She typed "It's a boy!!" on the sonogram and took a picture. We were honestly floored. After a couple months of thinking it was a girl, he surprised us!
People at work asked if we cried and neither one of us did. I know from my point of view, I was way too overjoyed to cry. He's such a blessing from God.
Here's my little guy at 18 weeks!
Now comes the fun part -- SHOPPING! We checked out Target Friday night and found a monkey Pack-n-Play on clearance, so we bought that. It was hard to resist some of the precious clothes they have these days. All the boy stuff is "Mommy's All-Star" or "Daddy's Basketball Camp". We saw the most precious little outfit with a pair of fleece pants and a hoodie. The hoodie said "All-Star" and then onesie under it said MVB...MOST VALUABLE BABY. I mean that's just to stinkin' cute.
I'm going back in 3 weeks for a second ultrasound to check his growth. His head was a week or so larger than his body, although he equaled out to be 17.9 weeks, which is right on track. I like to think he just has a really big brain.
Before we got pregnant, we both said we wanted little boys. I don't know why, but it just seemed fun. I think for me, I just wanted Kelsey to have somebody to play with. He gets so bored during the summer when he's off work and I could just see him hanging out with his son all summer long!
I've been reading the old wives tales, trying to figure out what's swimming around in my belly, and they all pointed to girl. In fact, the day of my ultrasound I took a quiz and it said girl! I had been eating lots of fruits and sweets, gained weight all over, and had terrible morning sickness. A few of my friends who have or are having boys had none of that.
We told the tech we wanted to know -- no hesitation, in fact. She put the wand on my belly and BOOM, there he was! She said, "There's your little squirt!" It was a beautiful sight. This was my first ultrasound and first glimpse at our little baby. I hope I never forget seeing that little outline for the first time. She did an anatomy scan of his head, pointing out the two sections of his brain, and then she asked us again if we wanted to know the sex. Next thing you know, there's his little boy parts! She typed "It's a boy!!" on the sonogram and took a picture. We were honestly floored. After a couple months of thinking it was a girl, he surprised us!
People at work asked if we cried and neither one of us did. I know from my point of view, I was way too overjoyed to cry. He's such a blessing from God.
Here's my little guy at 18 weeks!
Now comes the fun part -- SHOPPING! We checked out Target Friday night and found a monkey Pack-n-Play on clearance, so we bought that. It was hard to resist some of the precious clothes they have these days. All the boy stuff is "Mommy's All-Star" or "Daddy's Basketball Camp". We saw the most precious little outfit with a pair of fleece pants and a hoodie. The hoodie said "All-Star" and then onesie under it said MVB...MOST VALUABLE BABY. I mean that's just to stinkin' cute.
I'm going back in 3 weeks for a second ultrasound to check his growth. His head was a week or so larger than his body, although he equaled out to be 17.9 weeks, which is right on track. I like to think he just has a really big brain.
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
17 weeks and counting
Here's my first blog about my pregnancy and our first baby! I'm at 17 weeks and will be 18 on Saturday. It's really hard to believe I've gone this far. It seems like yesterday that we found out we were having the baby and now I'm only a couple weeks from the mid-point of my pregnancy! When people say it goes fast -- boy, they aren't kidding.
Not all that long ago, I was carsick all day long -- at least that's what it felt like. It started the Monday after Easter. Most of you have already heard this story, but I want to make sure I don't forget. We fixed a great Easter dinner for ourselves, which included a huge ham. We put it in the fridge and I planned on using it for sandwiches the whole week. As I was getting food ready before work on Monday morning, I opened up the fridge, caught a whif of that formerly delicious ham and almost vomited right then and there. It was truly attrocious. From that point (6 weeks) until about 12, I had trouble eating anything. The whole world smelled like hot garbage and green beans. How is it possible that everything could feel like green beans? So, after about 12 weeks I started feeling better. Since then I've been hungry non-stop. This is one hungry little baby.
Here are my pregnancy highlights for week 17 and a pic (it's a week 16 pic from the cruise, but not much has changed):
Today's Date: June 22
How Far Along: 17 weeks
Total Weight Gain/Loss: I'm guessing about 6 pounds
Maternity Clothes: Some shirts. Maternity pants are too big and my other pants are too small. I have some shorts that fit perfectly; not maternity, but fit right under my belly. I wish I could wear them all the time! Mostly I wear whatever stretchy pants I have and honestly? I leave my pants unbuttoned at work pretty much all day.
Best Moment this week: It's going to be the ultrasound appointment on Thursday!
Gender: Don't know yet, but hopefully will find out on Thursday.
Movement:Nothing substantial, but I'm pretty sure I felt a little bit during the cruise.
Food Craving: Fruit of all kinds, especially strawberries and watermelon and lately I've been craving milk.
What I Miss: Tuna sandwiches!
Sleep: I feel like I'm ALWAYS sleepy every second of the day, so I almost never have a problem falling asleep. The only problems I have had are waking up too hot and lately my hips have been hurting when I lay on my side for too long without rolling over.
What I Am Looking Forward To: Finding out the gender and getting to see our little sweetie on the ultrasound.
Symptoms: Fatigue, constant hunger and I'm running my own little furnace.
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